Darkened_Destiny You can't wring your hands and roll up your sleeves at the same time.
I spend my whole life dreaming about what I will do in a few months, a year, 5 years, 10 years… etc.. I think “oh when I move in with my boyfriend I will cook dinners”, or “when I start 4th year I will study harder” , or “this summer I will go to the gym and be healthier” , “I will be cleaner next semester!”. Next season my life will be a dream, I will live JUST LIKE THIS… except it never works out just that way. In fact usually it ends up just the way it’s always been.
What I’d like to stop dreaming about is cooking/eating healthier for my IBS, exercising more and being more outgoing/social.