I have been relaxing my hair since I was about 12. I just recently stumbled onto a site about going natural. Hoping this is what is going to make my hair less of a stress. I am going cold turkey with the perms and most likely going to do kinky twists until it grow out. I’ve done the short cuts before but I can’t commit to the BC now. I have two girls as well, I’m DYING to find some easier way to manage their hair.