I do understand…lol… been there, done that, 11 times..yep, my 8th baby was a hard and seemed loooong pregnancy, miserable,whew.. but he is now the most wonderful young man ever, got crazy did it 3 more times and my 11th pregnancy was WONDERFUL, really enjoyed feeling “her” lol, move and grow, she is now 10 years old and I still look at her in awe, knowing I carried her in my body, and the many times she and I had quiet alone times then, so try to overlook, the”preggy” stuff and just enjoy feeling your little wonderful person in there grow…good luck and look forward to hearing about your new little one…