Thats just like me! I got tired of always hearing “You would be so gorgeous if you’d only lose that weight”. Now, I’m hearing “You are looking so good! But hey, tell me when you’ve lost all that weight cause then you’ll be some serious eye candy”. It’s a bit discouraging to hear that, but in a way its sort of a back handed compliment.

On the other hand, its really some incentive to make a commitment to losing the weight, just to be able to stop that crap. And when I’m all done, I’ll know that I did it and I will have the smug satisfaction of knowing that I did it without them.