My wife and I went to college together, a little older than the average student. She told me a week before graduation that she wanted a divorce. I took a strong stance and filed myself (trying to take some sort of control over the situation). I haven’t talked to or seen her in two months, and out of the blue she calls me last night and wants to talk. Long story short, I think she basically wants to get back together and regrets her decision. I miss her very much and really want her back, however, my family and friends all tell me that the relationship is doomed because the trust was destroyed by her betrayal. I am not sure what to do. I want to be with her again, but I don’t want to put myself in a situation where she can hurt me again.

I have dated somebody since her but I have absolutely no emotion toward the other woman, I feel incapable of love toward anybody except her…