I have been as shy for as long as I know and I am now 29. My shyness is causing me all sorts of problems mostly involving me finding employment and in my romantic life. about a year ago I told a friend of mine I was in love with her (took me several years to do that) we had a trial then she basically brushed me off. I still love this girl though more then I have ever loved anyone but don’t want to tell her again as I might risk coming across as a ‘crazy stalker guy’