Recently I was really ill…it made me realise how I’ve given too much importance to work and not enough to having a life and friends.

I realised when I was ill, it’s not work that’s there for you but your friends and family who I’ve not been spending enough time with.

So…despite not being fully better yet, I’ve given up some evening working and been out 5 times in the last 2 weeks – the first social thing I’ve been to at work which I loved, then coffee and lunch with friends and this week Sunday ;lunch and an evening meal at friends houses. Things that I’d have said no to or just not found the time for…

I’m also planning on going to an event tomorrow evening which I’ve always said no to…

keeping this on here for now as I’m not sure saying yes has set in enough as a habit yet! :)