I finally find The One and all I do is push him. “Go to college, have more confidence, accomplish something every day.” I’m afraid all he hears is, “Nag, nag, nag.” This poor guy has been in a rut for years and even though he wanted out of his old slacker life, I think he’s getting a little more than he bargained for.

I need to lay off! I need to tell him how very much I love him at this moment. Yes, I want him to grow and “be all he can be” but my love isn’t contingent on that. So I’ve set myself a reminder for next week. Maybe I should set one every day…