Practice Unconditional Love
Ruiz

Imagine a perfect relationship. You are always intensely happy with your parnter because you live with the perfect woman or man for you. How would you describe your life with this person?

Well, the way you relate with this person will be exactly the way you relate with a dog. A dog is a dog. It doesn’t matter what you do, it’s going to be a dog. You are not going to change a dog for a cat or a dog for a horse; it is what it is.

Just accepting this fact in your relations with other humans is very important. You cannot change other people. You love them the way they are or you don’t. You accept them they way they are or you don’t. To try to change them to fit what you want them to be is like trying to change a dog for a cat, or a cat for a horse. They are what they are; you are what you are…

...If you own a dog or a cat, think about how you relate to your pet. Let’s consider your relationship with a dog, for example. The animal knows how to have a perfect relationship with you…A dog doesn’t care what you do; it just loves you. It doesn’t have any expectations. Isn’t that wonderful?

...Love is what make you happy, and if you become the servant of love, and your partner becomes the servant of love, you can just imagine all the possibilities. The day will come when you can be with your partner with no guilt and no blame, no anger and no sadness. That day will be wonderful when you can be completely open, only to share, only to serve, only to give your love.



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How do I tell you I’ve never seen poetry in anyone’s eyes but yours?
That I’m amazed that I’m able to look beneath skin and flesh so beautiful it escapes description
To a mind that screams depth and thoughtfulness and encompasses all that I desire.

How do I explain the true comfort I feel when I’m wrapped in your arms?
And that I’ve never felt so adored and at the same time adoring of all that is yours
And just knowing that you are there makes me lose sense of any worry I’ve ever known.

How do I tell you exactly how I feel right now?
That every feeling emotional and physical is a million times more than anything I’ve ever felt
And yet there I was before, thinking I knew all there was to know.

How can I explain that I’m as caught in you as I am in my own skin?
And that I can think of no other web I’d rather be wrapped up in.
That being with you beats any wildest dream I’ve ever dreamt, every word I ever wrote, and every wish I’ve ever made.


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