I always feel guilty when I should say no. Just today I needed a new phone, my wife said I should go get one. We went to the cell store and I found a sweet new phone. She threw me her famous guilt trip until I didn’t even want this thing. I ended up buying my phone and half of her new one too. She always walks around with a wad of cash because WE spend my money – not hers. After its all said and done, I feel like she treats me like crap after I just did something cool for her.
It’s not just her either, its everyone. I can be generous and helpful but always seem to feel shit on afterwards.
How can I stop this?? I am so depressed over this and have been for many years. Will people ever stop guilting or using me?