I left my husband in october of 2002. He made sure I lost track of him in short order. Not knowing where he was, I was unable to serve him divorce papers. Therefore, no divorce eans, no new marriage, and I’m breaking the law by being in a relationship with a man who is not my husband. Kinda sucks. Even worse, in a court of law, my children are merly evidence to the fact that I did break that law. Out of curiosity, why is a law based on a religious belief still on the books even after the “Seperation of Church and State”?