Changing one word makes a world of difference! “Become a great conversationalist” was one of my stated goals for a long time. Less than 10 other people were with me. I thought that was strange.
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Finally, I saw the “very similar” suggestion. Switching to Become a Better Conversationalist resulted in finding hundreds of others who are interested in having great conversations.

Additional benefits include (1) less pressure! (2) more accountability. Getting better can be measured while being great is subjective.