Note to self: Being nice to her doesn’t mean I will become like her, even if she thinks so. It doesn’t matter what she thinks about that.

I want to make the time I do talk to her cordial. I don’t want her to think I hate her. I even want to do fun things with her and not get annoyed. I get a scowl on my face when she does something that annoys me (like when makes broad, mean assumptions about people). I want to not be as affected. Maybe I can change the subject when that happens.