I have had a wake up call just recently. I realized I have put my motherhood on the back burner. I went through a divorce and it had a great effect on me. I am realizing that I did not have the correct skills to be a mother. I was very young when I had my first child, and I came from a disfunctional abusive home. My children are almost raised, but I am realizing the effect it has had on them. I still have two children at home. I love my children but am not a good teacher or disciplinarion. I am a good provider and have put my focus on the working, but, not giving them the guidance they have needed and still need. I want to change that part of me. I want to learn and become better. I will always be a mom and I desperately love my children. I want to make changes but need help. I don’t know where to begin.