Dana is...bringing her own sunshine has been gone for far too long!

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1977

This is a photo of me on my 5th bday. Check out that dress lol. I remember this day as a good one. I felt special and thought the cake was beautiful and tasted good! I think this photo captures me in a lot of ways.

I recall asking my mom about this photo and telling her how I remembered it and she smiled and her eyes filled up with tears. She recalled the day differently, but was so thankful my memory of it was good. She had been fighting with dad and we did not have the money for a cake or presents. My aunt and mom got together and were determined to make this a good birthday no matter what, they made a cake from a cheap cake mix, put decorations on it from a previous year, let me wear my favorite dress (so she says! I know that was her idea! lol), encouraged me to celebrate the day, the beautiful weather, being a child, playing, etc.

Mom did a fantastic job; if she would not of told me I would never have known it was not a perfect day. In my mind it still was and will always be one of my favorite memories and definitely one of my favorite photos. Thanks mom.



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What a sweet story!

God only knows how many more of our happy childhood memories were in essence engineered by well-meaning parents who themselves weren’t quite so happy…

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Hats off to your mom and aunt!

One of the objectives I have as a parent is to shelter my children from things that they do not need to worry about at their age. It is my prayer that I do as good a job of it as your mom did.


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