Brian is at peace.

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Dear EW,

I’ve learned a lot since our divorce. I’m well aware that I was as much to blame as you, when it came to the unhappiness and stagnancy in our marriage.

But that didn’t give you the right to hurt me the way you did. Understanding why you did it, didn’t make it any less painful. It was a selfish thing you did. You should have just told me face to face that you wanted out.

EH

Dec 24, 2011, 12:28PM PST | 9 cheers


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rosewilder

Cheers for the letter

(not for the hurt)

I hope you heal and find peace.

Dec 25, 2011, 05:40AM PST | Respond to this 1 cheer

dharma_child Excited to hear the kids give VOICE to Last Night I Dreamd of Chickens

Thumbs up on saying it out loud...

...and hopefully, you can let it go too. Big question…What would you write to yourself about what you do deserve and want in your future relationship(s)?

Dec 28, 2011, 10:34AM PST | Respond to this 1 cheer

Brian is at peace.

Thank you

Thank you both for your positive thoughts.

The truth is, that I’ve been divorced for over 6 years now, so I’m pretty much over the hurt.

I just wanted to see if I FELT anything by writing this virtual letter.

And, honestly. I’m not sure what I felt. I guess it felt kinda good to come out and say something I never told her face to face, but I didn’t get any kind of emotional release….perhaps because I truly am “over it.”

I’ve had some more recent hurts over the last six years. Maybe someday I’ll figure out what exactly I would have liked to say to the ones who caused those.

Hmm…what would I write to myself? I’ll think about that.

Thanks again.

Dec 28, 2011, 01:35PM PST | Respond to this 2 cheers


Brian has gotten 9 cheers on this entry.

 

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