Brian is at peace.
I’ve learned a lot since our divorce. I’m well aware that I was as much to blame as you, when it came to the unhappiness and stagnancy in our marriage.
But that didn’t give you the right to hurt me the way you did. Understanding why you did it, didn’t make it any less painful. It was a selfish thing you did. You should have just told me face to face that you wanted out.