but i love complaining. i know i should stop but i feel as if i have too much to bitch about.

I think that too a lot of times.. with me, I usually don’t complain at all, I just nag when my husband does something wrong, which is even worse.

I think it helps a lot if you find some sort of role model, and always remind yourself of what they’d do in this situation.
This can be someone in real life, or a movie, or a book, anything. Someone who always keeps their temper, and never gets mad about anything. I have two people actually, a guy I know who’s really always in a good mood, and always makes everybody else feel better about things.
And there’s a character from the TV show Army wives.. lol
so whenever I feel like yelling at my husband, I think: What would Roxy do?

good luck, you two :)