First, #3 & #4, life can sometimes throw you blows that you have no control over.

As for the others, I’d venture a guess that you are already a good person with the traits that you describe.

You are a good roll model. There’s no need to “try”. You’re aware, and you’re doing the best to be the best you can be. If you’re doing that – then you are “being”.

I’m not really sure how to ellaborate what I mean. But I think you’re on a roll.

You’re kids are fortunate to have such a loving parent.

Peace,
Grandma