I am 31 years old. I have never met my father and do not even have a name. My mother has been the best mum a lad could ask for and more. I do not want to offend or upset her by asking about my father. For some reason I feel compelled to find out who he is. I try to forget about it all but the idea just keeps coming to me. I have no idea how to go about finding my father and fear any rejecting outcomes. can anyone give me any advice?