Having a partner, a friend, a lover there for you in life is so important. I have a bf at the moment that weve been together for over a year, its good but were kind of going through a downhill phase at the moment. I would like to get married in the near future. I mean i know who i am and what i want and theres no point waiting. I just wish he felt that way aswell. I mean we are still young (im 20, hes 22)and he says im alot more mature than i should be, he jus wants to have fun. I dunno.. cant there be a mix between having fun and being responsible and concerned about the future? ugh.. so frustrating.