Tonight was a long conversation with C whom I love dearly. She has been a wonder in my support and she told me something tonight that helped a lot. She told me that D had tried to bed her while I was away on a business trip. Furthermore, his excuse when he tried was that he and I were in an open relationship. C and I have been very close friends for nearly 2 years and she has helped me a lot with getting through the crap D left me with. This is the first time she mentioned it and it happened a year and a half ago. I felt a lot of different emotions: thankful that she trusted me with this, anger and disgust that it happened with a guy I loved and I didn’t see it, relief that I wasn’t imagining that things were going badly with him. So here’s another good reason to move on and be thankful for the wonderful friends that I have: D is gone from my life but C is still here. I am blessed.