Today, I had the urge to complain about work. I am generally very optimistic and definitely feel grateful for my job, but my boss did something annoying and the kids I work with are not always very kind. I just couldn’t decide if it would be virtuous to not say anything at all or if mentioning it to my boyfriend would be cheating on this goal. Does not complaining mean that you just keep it bottled up? I do believe in offering little ‘sufferings’ up in prayer so I tried to do that for their souls, but I still am unsure how to go about this goal.