i am getting so much better
so, a year and a half later we STILL don’t have the visa. but i’ve been patient enough to have gotten to the point where we have the RECEIPTS for the visa. it’s taken a supreme amount of restraint to not lose my shit. definitely have learned how to practice patience.
nonetheless, i’m still ready to explode- even though they’ve already told us the date that we will receive the physical visas, the government is still harassing us for paperwork we’ve already filed, which stresses me out to no end.
once i have aldy and allen safely inside the apartment with the door locked… once that happens i am ticking this off my list of “things.” at that point practicing patience will go into the “i’m done” pile.

