... when I feel better about myself. I’ve been working at eating healthy and exercising more, and even though there hasn’t been a huge physical difference yet, I feel more open to other people already. Instead of hoping that I blend into the background, I feel more confident and energetic. I feel more like smiling! All the changes are more than worth it, even if the only benefit is liking myself more. As a bonus though, 2 really attractive, active, together looking guys checked me out at the grocery store last night. Looking for someone to date on a regular basis isn’t my top priority right now, but it was still encouraging.