There is only so much you can do for a person. Saving them from themselves is not possible. There is a person in my life that I constantly tried to save and tried to…basically just tried to live his life for him because he didn’t seem to know how. Eventually, it caused so much destruction in MY life that I just had to stop. You can be there for someone and offer help and support, but when it comes down to it, they have to make the decision to change. It’s sad to see someone you care about so deeply completley self destruct.