Sponsored Links

It Boot Camp

www.trainsignal.com/Video-IT-Training     Unlimited Access to 100+ IT Courses Only $49/Month - Instant Access!

CompTIA A+ Net+ Boot Camp

www.unitek.com/A+_Net+     Authorized A+ Net+ Security+ Course Triple Cert Guarantee in 9 Days!

Tarrador rising...

May Bootcamp 2012: Keep it Simple (read all 4 entries…)
Dispatches From Hell

Two weeks of straight hell.

At Work:
  • Mucho mucho hours. Lots of hard work, 14 and 16 hour days, 6 days a week (7 counting paperwork and ordering).
  • Treated scandalously by my employer. I was owed money and got a cheap gift certificate instead. No wonder they are always asking why they cannot keep good people.
  • The staff really performed well. I have trained them to be a great team and top performers and they executed themselves handsomely under fire. While everyone else’s staff and teams dropped their balls and stumbled around, our team was flexible and proactive. BD was our only weak link, doing a lot of complaining and not carrying his end. Disappointing, since he really should be a leader in the kitchen, not an anchor. I took the ladies out for dinner three evenings to make up for working them so hard. Such a good team, they kept thanking me and wanting to buy me dinner.
  • Tomorrow I have a final interview regarding a potential new job. I should know tomorrow evening if I got it or not. Very excited to get the new job, but worried about my team if I chose to move on.
At Home:
  • Not much quality time with my wife, and she is very demanding of what time off I do get. Early mornings and some late nights make me very tired and I’m often falling asleep instead of paying attention to her, which she does not like at all. Not much love-making which she likes even less. Last night I rallied my passion and energies and hoped she would be satisfied for a couple of days. No such luck. Although very happy with the happy-happy, now she just wants more. Salacious texts from her all day toay.
  • A friend is going through a personal crisis/meltdown. She’s told several people, including me, that she was pregnant then miscarried. Her husband is telling us that is untrue, she was never pregnant, it is just the stress of trying to get pregnant and failing is having negative consequences on her. I wish I was more available to talk to her, if that would help. But I’ve been too busy to even respond to her several ohone messages and emails. I do want to help her but at the same time I cannot let her pull me down into her craziness right now.
  • Diet is gone to the wind. Right now I eat whatever is too slow to get away. Exercise consists of striding around the kitchen giving orders and hauling sacks of potatoes.
  • Ran the Warrior Dash this weekend. That was fun, not nearly as brutal as the Spartan Race. But now I am stiff and sore and scraped and aching.
  • This is my last week of chiropractic visits and I am glad.
  • S. flies up to Virginia to visit her family for a long weekend. I’m staying here, hoping to stay out of trouble. Well, stay out of major trouble. A little trouble is not necessarily a bad thing.

More to say, just too tired right now to formulate anything sensible…



Comments:

You are fortunate

to have a wife who wants you that much. Probably difficult when you have so many priorities to juggle, but it must be nice to know she craves you.

I totally relate to the workload thing right now…

Your team will survive without you. They will all make the best choices for themselves in life, just as you need to make the best choice for yourself.

Good luck. And have some flowers delivered to your wife. ;-)

Tarrador rising...

I do...

love it that she loves me like that. See what a hole I am in? I never thought about flowers until you suggested it. What a great idea, thanks! She is definitely due some romantic gestures as well.

I know the team will survive, either as a team or as individuals. But every time I build a team and then tell them I am leaving they start to cry and it makes me sad and feel guilty.

On the plus side, based on my interview today I’m almost assured the position. The client wants to totally clean house of the old staff so I’d be starting fresh with a new team. More hearts to break. ;)

(Giggle.) Happy happy!

That’s the phrase I’m going to use when I invite my husband to do it tonight.

On a more serious note, I hope your days get more peaceful and happy. Even happy happy.


Tarrador has gotten 22 cheers on this entry.

 

I want to:
43 Things Login