Go super hard core: spend only on my biggest priorities:
Her in shape of my life
Achieve financial freedom:$$=options
apply for/create some opportunities
Stay in regular contact/rekindle
according to. This I will spend money on: healthy and only healthy food,trips to grocery and library. Books and classes toward career/life I want,gym,pilates,running club, trainer.
Will not spend on: going out to eat, ESP to bar. Alcohol except beer or wine at home( ideally homemade), cable, driving to unhealthy things, unhealthy foods, new clothes that aren’t workout clothes/gear,. Make clothes/homegood or thrift. Make door do without, get creative.