i hate hearing “i spent all day doing blah blah blah for you” in a whiny voice.

i’m sorry, but i spend all day worrying and trying to survive right now, i can’t deal with how you feel at the moment, even if it is to try to help me out.

while i appreciate the help alot, it’s not going to be good at all if it’s going to come with strings attached and me having to be the support system on top of it. i really can figure things out on my own, i might have questions, but i don’t want hand holding….

hmm.