driving a car

first you have so much you worry about,
the car that is coming, your engine temp, your air condition, your seat belt, your door is locked, your right, your left, your directions, with so many things going on, how did you learn to be confident?

you did not focus on positive or negative, you only focus on the process and you repeat the process to the point you don’t think about it.

break your process down in small steps and master each steps. Confidence is learnable skill. Focus on the process, not the positive.

As Jim Rohn would say,
“Get better at setting the sail of boat, instead of get positive wind.” Your goal is no matter what positive or negative, you can move with confidence.

Doubt is a great signal to let you know you are not in your zone. Use doubt to find your strength.

Hi Queenbee689,

I empathize with you. One doubts every move that is made. I judge my doings on a consistent basis. But, now i try to look back and tell myself that i did do it. I did it. Of course i maybe i could improve on it and so i do it again and it gets better. But, just want to realize that perfection is an ideal not reality. Doing something is perfection in an of itself.