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Theskysthelimit1976 2013: The year of buoyancy!

be a good wife (read all 4 entries…)
Communication

Last night DH said I was a good wife because I introduced him to 43 things and he thinks he’d like to join. He said, “See, you are inspiring me to work on myself and my goals. And that makes me a better person.” That was nice.

Then this morning we got into a tiff over the way we were communicating. We need to figure out how to communicate better.



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You and every other couple in the world!

We all need to work on communication. It’s a learned (very slowly learned in my case) behavior. Even when we’ve come so far, my spouse and I still need to work on it continuously.

Theskysthelimit1976 2013: The year of buoyancy!

Good to know

we aren’t alone. He went and got a haircut, I took a shower and then we came back to talk and worked it out. He was putting meaning behind things I was saying that wasn’t true. I was being defensive when there was nothing to defend. I also use my hands and act very emphatic and he takes that as me being VERY upset… where I see myself as being passionate. We are learning about each other. It’s good. I say just so long as we don’t let the crap linger around and build up, then we are good : )

Thanks for the support!!

Exactly!

“Don’t let the crap linger around” is the perfect motto.


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