praying for baby R and yourself. Send her lots of loving thoughts, and talk to her as if she were here. Thank her for being a part of your life. This is a time of healing for you, and your baby.

Thank you for sharing your feelings with us. I think that people forget how painful this experience is for others. Your post reminds us of this.

Sending loving thoughts and prayers your way.

So sorry. When I told my parents that my boyfriend died, my dad’s response was, “Well, that sucks.” And I was just like, yes, it does. It’s awful that there is no better word for it, but it sucks. Your situation sucks. I hope people are doing nice things for you today, and you do nice things for yourself. Take care.

((atinygoat))

I’m so sorry to read this and my heart goes out to you & yours.

Be gentle & kind to yourselves, always.
((((((((((ATG)))))))))

and it is frustrating… especially when it is your first baby (pregnancy). There is always that worry will I ever get pregnant again and will things be ok next time… Until you hold your baby in your arms and count those ten fingers and ten piggies for the first time and wrap that little strand of finest blond hair around your fingers you will always be a bit anxious and nervous. But, my dear friend, it will also be the most amazing moment of your life.
Of course this is from a father’s point of view.. as much as I was disapointed in losing our first baby, was how much I knew it hurt (emotionally) my wife… It is tough watching someone whom you love so much hurt so bad.. But with lots of hugs, and encouragement and all the silly stupid things I could think of to make her smile, we got through fine and after about 3 years (ugh) our first of 3 babies in 28 months (ugh) was born.
I will be watching you and wishing you and yours all the best.

and many many (((hugs))) to you. I’ve walked in your shoes twice over, our hearts will always miss them. Be gentle with yourself xx