I need to learn not to care what others think of me. This goes in hand with Loving myself. I need to learn to care about myself more and be ok with who I am as a person. I shouldn’t think or care what otehrs truly think of me cause its not there place to tell me how I should be and what I should do. I can take advice but its jsut I shouldn’t fully depend on others to tell me what to change or fix. I think people should just mind their own buisness and not judge others on what they look like, how they act, or jsut who they are in general. I feel I need to work on this cause I can be a judgemental person and thats what humans are but I want to change that. I am self centered and I think that everything or everyone has to be a certain way but I need to relize that everyones differnt and thats whats good about our world that every one is unique in their own way. I want to improve how I vew people and not care what others think of me. I try to be what others want me to be but I need to learn to just except myself as who I am I should always change for someone else cause not everyones going to like me. I have to accept that. I want to change this. Please support me :)
PasadenaSue This is the year I face my fears and love myself!
People will judge things.
We can’t change that for others, only for ourselves. So the fact that you are aware that you are judgmental is a huge step in moving beyond this.
Start by loving yourself, accepting yourself for who you are without judgments of who you “should” be. Then you will notice that you are less concerned about what others think of you.
Great post, you understand the concepts. The fun part is putting them into action!
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