two good things came out of my marriage. gregory and caydence. i know that just because he’s leaving doesn’t mean i am any less of a mommy. in fact, i think i’m better for not trying to hold on to something that 1. isn’t there and 2. is bad to have the kids around. they don’t need to see us fight all the time. so i guess the biggest question i have for myself is, “is this really what’s best for them?” and i think it most definitly is.