The course of events that have brought me to the point of seeking help on being a control freak is probably not unusual. However, I need help because in certain aspects of life…being controlling just gets in the way.
Like sex for example, I control every aspect of it. The lighting, the music, the touches, whether there is kissing or not. Why is that? My husband is very romantic, and he’ll stop in the middle of doing something and try to give me a romantic kiss. My very first reaction is to give him “a-leave-me-alone-kiss”. Why can’t I just stop and enjoy that incredible gift that my husband has to give. What is wrong with me?