I had a date tonight. It’s been a long time since I dated some one. It was my first time meeting this guy and the date went quite well. But when I got home I got a message from him saying that he wished I was there with him now. Then he sent me a topless picture of himself and started talking about sexual stuff! I told him that I didn’t want to lead him on and that I was not looking for casual relationship. His reply was that he didn’t live here and couldn’t have a relationship now. Like I was asking him to have a relationship with me.. I didn’t even know him well enough to decide if I want to have a relationship with him.. He said it was nice knowing me and that was it. I was a bit pissed and upset. I don’t know. Maybe I shouldn’t have sent the text? It just felt weird that sex came to the conversation so fast. Based on my experience, it was never a good sign. But well at least he was honest. I hope he wasn’t scared off because of my text. I guess I was out of the dating scene for too long that I didn’t know how to date anymore.. But I think if he liked me he wouldn’t have given up so fast? I didn’t want to be someone’s sex buddy. I’m not selling myself cheap.