Cal is looking forward with joy and apprehension.
we have been together for 35 years, and to be truthful sometimes I sit and pick apart her actions, but I do have a choice. I can be a loving husband as God wants me to be, or I can be selfish and hateful thereby making myself miserable. Sometimes it is a hard choice:-)
Cal is looking forward with joy and apprehension.
it is so hard to demonstrate love to someone that is so important to me? I can say “I love you” and rally mean it, but actions are so much more important than words, It is not that I am hateful, I’m not; but I tend to just take her for grated, which in ways is worse. If someone is hateful toward you at least they are thinking about you; if they take you for grated, it is like you are not there.
My wife is my sunshine
mycapaciousbottega is changing her reality, one goal at a time.
That was beautiful. And so honest.
I find myself thinking the the same of my own set-up, concerning my child. Its one thing telling her I love her or going through the daily rituals of sustaining her but what does all that mean if it doesn’t equate or seep into all my directed actions.
I speak in haste and in anger a lot and I find myself berating myself for it at a later stage, but the trick is to consciously keep it in mind that this person, one that I love so much and value more than gold, is deserving of my patience.
This is something I pray to God everyday to help me with.
alot of it has to do with the way we have(or choose) to live today. everyone has something to do or somewhere to be at any given hour. when i was a kid we had something here in texas called the BLUE LAW where almost everything was closed on Sunday so you got spend more time together even if it was just a day. that don’t even happen for alot of people anymore, most companies here are pretty much a 24-7 operation especially for blue collar people like myself. i wish i could afford to live in the country again, i know for a fact things would be better.
Cal is looking forward with joy and apprehension.
six miles from town and that town doesn’t even have a stop light or an elevator. However we (Americans) have become homogenized, even here stores are open seven days a week. One of my favorite sayings is “Things ain’t like they used to be, and they never were.” :-)
Cal is looking forward with joy and apprehension.
http://www.youtube.com/v/rpPebBNdcpg
This is our Granddaughter, being “interviewed” by our daughter.
Philip cheered this 2 years ago
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