Dear 43 Things Users,

10 years after introducing 43 Things to the world, we have decided we have met our last goal: completing the incredible experience that has been 43 Things. Please join us in giving one last cheer to all the folks who have shared their goals with the world, as well as all the people who have worked at The Robot Co-op to build this incredible website. We won a Webby Award, published a book, and brought happiness to a lot of people.

Starting today, 43 Things users can export their goals and entries from the site. Starting August 15, we will make the site “read only”. 43 Things users will still be able to view the site and export their content, but we won’t be taking any new content from users. We hope to leave the site up for folks to see and download their content until the end of the year. Ending on New Year’s Eve takes us full circle.

It has been a long ride (one of our original goals was to "build a company that lasts at least 2 years” - we beat that one!) While we wish the site could live on, it has suffered from a number of challenges - changes in how people use the site, the advertising industry, and how search engines view the site. We wish the outcome was different – but we’ve always been realistic about when our goals are met and when they aren't.

As of today, you will be able to download your goals and entries. See more about that on the FAQ page. Thanks for 10 great years of goal-setting and achieving.

- The Robots.

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How to Be a Better Co-Parent
Simple Co-Parenting Tips And Strategies You Should Implement Today

When divorce is in the picture it is an extremely draining ordeal, even more so when there are children in the family. After a divorce and you find yourself confronting a shared custody issue; get ready for a wide range of ups and downs.

Parents most always put their children first and try to protect them, but sometimes matters come up that may blur this priority. As you read on we will be making a few suggestions that may be helpful if you find yourself in this situation.

When a divorce occurs, it is very tempting for one parent to talk about the other to the child when they have it. So something that should be avoided at all costs. Try not to talk negatively about the other parent is the way to go. One thing that can really harm a child both emotionally and mentally is for each parent to badmouth the other parent would either parent has the child. When one parent starts to date another person, the other parent should not make negative comments. You need to realize that his individual will play a significant role in your child’s life later on. You aren’t doing the child any favors by trying to turn him or her against the other parent -or anyone who is close to the other parent. Co-parenting forces you to put together a rigid schedule in more than one area. Sometimes this is going to be ordered by the court but sometimes it is going to be something you simply agree to do. Regardless, you have to allow for the fact that life is rarely something you can predict. That’s why you should be as flexible as possible. Scheduling conflicts are going to come up, be as accommodating with the other parent as you can if days need to be traded. At the same time if it happens to you too many times you might be having a bigger problem. At the same time, it is better for your children when you, as parents, can work together and cooperate. If the "official schedule" needs adjustments sometimes, try not to freak out about it.

Whatever you plan to do, make sure that the other parent is part planning process to make things flow smoothly. Legal documents or agreements that were ascertained that court should always be followed, or penalties could be implemented. If not, you may want to consult with a mediator or counselor to help you come up with a workable plan. If both parents are amicable to talking with a mediator, it is possible that a schedule can be devised that both parents can agree with. In most cases, conflict and resentment will definitely manifests if a specific schedule is not created and followed. The best case scenario is to have a written document double fare it will abide by so that potential conflicts will not manifest. This article should give you a basic overview of what you need to do in a co-parenting situation. However, there is much more to learn. It can be tough for both parents to come up with a mutually amicable plan – but it can happen. When parents first breakup, and go their separate ways, there is hostility between the two of them for quite some time. The best thing to do is stop being negative and think about your kids. official website



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