Its acctuly not the forgiving part that is a problem, I forgive pretty easily, but no one knows that because I never let it drop, even if I am not mad about it I will go on and on and on… I think it really bugs people.
forgive and forget...
hmm…seems like the forgiving part is not really easy for you then? Maybe your heart wants to forgive…then it is in the right place…but your mind doesn’t let you forget it…try to forget…I know…easier said than done. But you will feel a better person for it..and you won’t feel it will be bugging the ppl around you so much!
I know and I want to…its just so HARD!