joyovictory

Replace destructive relationships with healthy ones (read all 2 entries…)
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Sometimes it is hard to identify which is which, because people are just too complex. But now that I have begun to “track” those who make me feel bad, and those who make me feel good, (see picture above as example of who makes me feel good) I have decided to cut off some of the bad ones, even if they are family!

May 09, 2005, 09:57AM PDT | 3 cheers


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May 12, 2005, 10:56AM PDT

tiggsybabes is on half term

Positive

I did that last year & it my life is so much better without all the negative comments & bitching.

May 13, 2005, 06:37PM PDT | Respond to this

Angry Butterfly is stuck in neutral

work in progress

I am cutting people out at first it seemed too harsh but the moreI DETACH myself and not worry how they look at me or think, I better I feel about it…I am ready to let the good things in and get rid of the bad…..

Jul 23, 2005, 09:55AM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

joyovictory

Cutting family

Formerly close friends and even relatives seem to clutter up my life, even when they are clearly nasty to my face and behind my back. I have previously kept trying to gain their trust, only to be hurt over and over again.
It has been difficult to decide on letting them go, but once it has been done, life does lighten considerably. And I have to admit that I choose these people myself, so letting them go is also within my power.
It is a way of respecting myself, loving myself, and caring about those who are good to me. It gives me more energy to be better to the ones who deserve it.

Jul 24, 2005, 01:52PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Angry Butterfly is stuck in neutral

yes I have to agree

the emotional roller coaster that family and even those we call friends…can be very draining and leaving me with nothing for the good people I do enjoy and are there, and do deserve it.

Jul 25, 2005, 05:01AM PDT | Respond to this


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