So how will I quantify this? I want to be a better wife—show my husband how much I love him and get closer to him. But I’m not going to post every down & dirty detail. I could…but I won’t.

Do I do the penny in a jar thing? Do I notch my bedposts? And more than what? I wasn’t notching my bedpost before, so I might not realize when I’ve hit goal.

Maybe when we hit the point where he’s saying, not tonight honey…I have a headache.?