I’ve been broken up with my fiance for 10 months now. I have a totally new boyfriend who I love and want to be with, but I wonder if I’m fantasizing. My new boyfriend I’ve realized lately, isnt that great, and my last boyfriend, sucked too. Actually I’m finding that every person I’ve ever been with has turned out to suck. So my question is does everyone suck? or is it just me ruining all my relationships. I want to be with my current boyfriend, but I think I may have already destroyed in chance at happiness with him. What do I do? He is completely unresponsive to everything.
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Wild_Heart is broken-hearted
I’ve found that I tend to do this, too… I don’t mean to sound rude, but I think we both just have bad taste—or are attracted to something in all men that somehow end up being total jerks/idiots/lame-os.
I have no idea why, but I end up getting crushes on guys that end up being… well… not-great examples for their sex. One guy I dated was a drunk, one a community-college dropout, one an artist (aka unemployed couch potato). Somehow, I think the attraction vibes in us just zoom in on some identifiable part of those guys.
So yeah. Good luck with that.
