always been given everything and last year, my last year at uni, i noticed i had too many things and other students had about a tenth of my stuff. so i gave to charity and i also noticed my mum has this habit of buying lots of cheap and crap quality stuff rather than stuff which is good quality and maybe costs slightly more- and she doesnt use any of the stuff she buys and ends up using my things- so i decided to go shopping with her and help her buy stuff- that she actually needed and not crap that was 2 for 1 that she can do without- since then things are looking up!