hey man, don’t get so dissapointed! There are always people who can be your friends. The key is not to wait others to come and talk to you. You should find your common interests with others and start a conversation depending on these. Also don’t go and express so serious feelings without previous connections with the subject. Most will think either you are joking or you are crazy. Trust me I’ve done this once and at the end it didn’t end good.

I agree with what sotiris88 said. I’ll just add, you won’t know how any group will be until you try and at least get talking to them! And it’s a good idea to take things slow with people—friends and dates alike, and not totally expect anything big from your new relationship. Certainly not right away!

I say this because I’ve had guys act the same way with me, and it really made me uncomfortable because I didn’t know them, and they expected me to be a perfect girl for them really fast.

:) I hope you get to finding some friends though! I wish you success in that!

Thank you for writing about this. You’ve got a lot of courage to be able to share your own thoughts and frustrations.

I’m also someone who doesn’t enjoy college that much. I’m a senior, but I’ve never really found people who like the things that I do and have similar interests. I had one close friend during freshman year, but he transferred out at the end of the year and we don’t keep in touch anymore.

I think it’s hard to find friends when you’re not a freshman, because everybody has already established their group of friends. So it might work to transfer, but you also run the risk of being stuck in the same situation.

I thought about transfering out too, but I decided to stick it out. There are ways of talking to people without having friends. Sometimes it helps to sit somewhere different in class and talk to the person sitting next to you. Maybe there are clubs for you to join that have people with similar interests.

I think it’s important to remember that you aren’t a bad person. Try to talk to people, but don’t get down when things don’t go perfect. We’re often good people stuck in bad situations. And don’t give up hope.

I’m willing to talk more about this if you’d like. It’s such an important topic and it’s something that I’ve struggled with and still struggle with. So if you need further help, just say the word.

No one there wanna be friend? :D

QUOTE: ‘I’m handsome fit rich young man with gentle looking’
You sound like you have absolutly no personality, you think you are handsome, well you aren’t the next Brad Pitt.
You are sitting on your backside waiting for people to come to you!
If you want things to happen then make them happen, you are thinking you are amazing and that people should like you because of the way you look. YOU MUST EARN FRIENDSHIP!
All you are doing is sitting on some crappy little help site, wanting everybody to comment back saying they feel sorry for you WELL THEY SHOULDN’T, you want friends then you have to become a person that people want to be friends with.
Your user nam i mr technology lover for pete sake!!!
I am sorry if this is not what you wanted to hear but that is what you WILL hear from me. I didn’t used to have many friends but then i realised that you have to be frinedsly to people and now, altough i am not in the ‘IT’ crowd I still have my mates who appreciate me for who I am!!!!
Work for what you believe in… and goodluk with it all and I hope you have a good life after you overcome your socialising fears x