funniculee is dredging up old memories of past literary loves

Hike Long's Peak (read all 9 entries…)
Short hike yesterday. 3 years ago

Roughly 1/2 hour. We moved at a good clip, not too many rests. I have to admit, I’m a little skeptical as to whether my roommate will do this or not. I think she is capable, but she complained a lot on yesterday’s hike – and it was a short one.

I know that part of it is that she is out of shape, just quit smoking recently, and is just not used to that kind of physical activity. I’m not really IN shape, but I tend to be more active every day than she is, so I’m probably in slightly better shape. However, I really think she’s got a mental block similar to one I had growing up – a block on mental exhertion. I hated the feeling of breathing hard – it felt very uncomfortable to me. I had to learn that feeling some muscle burn and breathing hard are GOOD things, and not interpret them as discomfort.

I also had to learn to believe that I could get to the top.

Thankfully, although she was a titch whiney during the hike, she realized after it was done that it was no big deal. And talked about working more seriously on this goal, developing a hiking schedule to do 3 hikes a week (two short weekday, 1 long weekend). That’s more like it. I hope she can keep that positive outlook.



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mejaka is on the preferred substitute list--for Project. Weird.

Neat of you

to hike with someone not up to speed! Tell your roomie this cheer is for her—I hope she can keep her positive outlook, too, and keep on hiking until it all feels good. I’m 39, 50 lbs overweight, and I know the hard stuff…but I love the phrase (I first saw here at 43things)”Earn more dopamine.” When she struggles, try reminding her of the kick-butt high she’s earning! Or…use the phrase and let her remind herself.

funniculee is dredging up old memories of past literary loves

She is really not that far behind.

I know because she has hiked this trail before (and our last long hike, over 7 miles!) with no real problem. I think she just gets frustrated and upset because she thinks it’s a piece of cake for me (it’s not, but I try not to dwell on the difficulty, because that frustrates ME) and that it should be just as easy for her (well, yes, someday, after you work at it!). There is such a huge mental element to this hiking thing!

I’m trying to figure out how to be encouraging without being annoying, and without being too coddle-some – I don’t want to be patronizing. That’s an awesome saying, by the way! Thanks for sharing. I’m going to try to remember to use it.


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