I have reduced my complaining because, to be honest, I am much happier. However, there are certain people that I tend to complain to. Its not that they are complainers, because not all of them are. Its more that I feel comfortable around them. My husband hears many complaints, but so do my best friends. My best friends and my husband do not deserve to get all of my negative thoughts. They are the ones that should get the positive, fun and enjoyable moments! (Unless, of course, I have a legitable problem and I need their advice or assistance.) I just need to start filtering my complaints and make sure that I am not always dumping them on the same people because they deserve better!