Hi Jean, if you saw the movie, What the Bleep Do We Know, it reminds us that we perceive reality based on our beliefs and what neuromtransmitters we produce. If you feel that you cannot have a windfall without someone else suffering, then that will come true for you because you will distort your perception of reality to fit your beliefs.

My paradigm around windfalls is, “easy come, easy go” so whenever I gains something like that, I know that I should NOT put it in the bank and try to hoard it. It’s like the energy of the Universe sends me a sudden blast and I need to keep that circulating. I usually spend most of it on my wife and myself. Buy something that makes me happy (not those happy meals, btw) and then use some of it to throw a big party for friends who can’t afford a nice party. Another good thing to do is find someone who has always wanted something but can’t bring themselves to spend the money to get and buy it for them.

An example is our friends who came to visit from Florida. They are a retired couple who have money, but have to be very careful because they have escalating medical bills. They took us to dinner one nite at a local restaurant and it was a nice gesture. Then, just before they left, we asked to take them out to dinner. Sheila said that they always wanted to go to Bubba Gump’s for dinner but it was too costly for them. We just took them there and boy, were they happy. We sat next to the ocean and had a lovely dinner, watched the sunset and saw a “green flash”. I’ll even include a photo of Rolf and Sheila at Bubba’s.

Bottom line is I hope you can release the “monkey’s paw” paradigm and use mine. It comes and it goes so spend it and enjoy it and throw a party.

Here is a sample of our waterfall in our “office” desk. Behind the wall is the front door to our condo we have listed. I have even placed a copy of the listing underneath the waterfaill to see if that helps and let our guides know that we are asking for wealth and abundance to come pouring into our home.

Good luck with your abundance. If it is money, perhaps you can put your checkbook underneath the waterfall.