This woman my husband worked with be-friended him only to try and move in on my marriage. I have been married for 30 years and my husband has never cheated on me before. Then she comes along and starts telling him her feel sorry for me problems and gives him her phone number saying she needed someone to talk to. Then next thing you know she is convincing him we are having problems and that her and her ex-husband split for awhile and it helped them. But mind you I said ex. In the end they started fooling around until I caught them.