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LL

Rid myself of unwanted junk in the form of annoying people and other things (read all 8 entries…)
I received a response from CG on Monday.

Here’s what he wrote:

Hi,

I’d figured something along those lines. Working on the basis that either I had over stepped the mark, which I only did because my reading of you is that’s what you wanted. Or I just scare you because you think I want a lot more than you do or I’m too much like the ex’s. Ce la vie.

It’s a bummer, because I reckon your well worth knowing, and I mean that as a friend. So I think it would be nice if we could stay in contact, and by all means let me know if you want to go for a bike ride along (local area) or something else.

CG

In typical fashion, he’s assuming that he knows what I did/do want… and better than I do myself. Both incorrect and annoying… but at least he seems to be accepting my decision. Most importantly, accepting it without my having to explain how irritating I find him.

Hopefully that’s the last of that.

Jun 02, 2006, 06:17AM PDT | 3 cheers


Comments:

Imoeris

He reminds me

so much of Flowerman… Let’s hope he’s out of your life for good :-)

Jun 02, 2006, 04:29PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

LL

Yeah, it's that same...

... ‘I know better’ attitude. I-rri-ta-ting! His whole first paragraph is a complete contradiction… honestly, the number of times I had to keep reminding him that I only wanted to be friends… sheesh!

I didn’t respond to his email, so there’s no more encouragement. I’m going to leave his number in my phone for a while, so that if he happens to ring I’ll be able to ignore him.

Finger crossed that Flowerman’s got too many other things to concentrate on when he gets back…

Jun 02, 2006, 04:40PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Imoeris

I can always

throw gumnuts at him if he doesn’t seem to get the picture…

Jun 02, 2006, 05:13PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

LL

Hee hee!

Good thinkin’! Surely there’s enough time to get the leg warmers finished before he gets back… ;-D

Jun 02, 2006, 05:41PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

Imoeris

I hope so!

I started last night but realised that I’d be better off following the pattern rather than hoping it would work out on a slightly smaller set of needles. So I’m about to head out to grab the right size needles and then get to knitting with gusto.

Jun 02, 2006, 05:45PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Can't wait... - LL
Shopping sucked ass - Imoeris
4 hours? - LL
The thing about Canberra... - Imoeris
It's the opposite in Melbourne. - LL
Thankfully, yes - Imoeris
Don't they usually come out on pension day? - LL
Pensioners - Imoeris
Look what I found! - LL
Aahhh!!! - Flirt
I think it will become an integral part of the outfit! - Imoeris

Flirt

Gumnuts?

I thought you Aussies threw jaffas at people like that!!!

What are gumnuts, anyway?

Jun 02, 2006, 06:08PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Imoeris

Gumnuts!

Are the seed pods from gum trees. That Aussie icon, the eucalypt. They were worn as hats by the little bush babies in May Gibbs’ stories. She wrote a lot of cutesy stuff in the early 1900’s.

Jun 02, 2006, 06:18PM PDT | Respond to this

Imoeris

Besides, if I throw jaffas

he might eat them. I don’t want to nourish or encourage him. I want him to leave me alone.

Jun 02, 2006, 06:19PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

Good point!!! - Flirt
Or molotov cocktails! - Imoeris
Let us know... - Flirt
Heh - Imoeris
Untitled - Flirt
We have petty cash? - Imoeris
P.S. - Flirt
It's a Saturday - Imoeris

Dana Moffett

A man's perspective

First off, you were not direct enough, women say “oh I am busy can’t do” message to men is “ohh she is busy I should try again later”. I always say in your postion, be direct, if a guy really likes you he will talk himself into a mindset that there is a chance, he will even decipher your language in his mind for an opportunity. If I was in his position aka chasing loq, I might chase to the point of irritation, but thats because I have learned some woman really are busy and interested, just more busy. As for his first paragraph, its not because he is trying to make words in your mouth, I view that as his perception of the situation and even a possibility to hook you (aka you respond back telling him he is wrong, which your not going to do). Those people go away with honesty…P.s. you must be something special to have men chase ya ha ha :), good luck

Jun 02, 2006, 08:29PM PDT | Thread | Respond to this

LL

You always...

... make very good points Dana :-)

I just didn’t know how else I was supposed to do it without being hurtful… telling him that I wasn’t interested (in anything but friendship) just didn’t work, but the thought of saying “frankly CG, you’re irritating and I want nothing to do with you” is awful. Then again, being honest certainly would ensure that he’d go away… I could only do that as a last resort though.

Thanks for the good wishes… hee hee… and the lovely compliment ;-D

How’ve you been, btw? Haven’t seen you ‘round much…

Jun 03, 2006, 05:08AM PDT | Thread | Respond to this 1 cheer

Dana Moffett

Many ways to say

What you feel, if you said it maliciously, then its hurtful, but if you say it with honesty, the hurt doesn’t last as long. Its not about being nice, its about preserving your character and remaining sane. Some people aren’t aware of there effect, I only get irritated when I know someone is behaving purposefully. Not saying being honest is blasting him, but if a girl is a partier and clubber and she likes me, I have to let her down and say, sorry i don’t think we have similar lifestyles. And for you it can be something as simple as we don’t have similar personalities. But I am sure you will be fine….yw for the compliment, if it can make smile its worth it, cheesy or cliche. As for me I am well, I have been chasing woman and such, right now I think I have a good one. I posted a couple times so that should make up for me not being around. I check my cheers and such, but sometimes things get slow, and I let it go that way, if I spend my life on here, that means I am not spending my life in, well… life :) ttyl

Jun 03, 2006, 04:20PM PDT | Respond to this 1 cheer


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