OK. i dare to say this cos no one knows me over here. and i shall say how much this is troubling me! i dont understand, really, i am such a boring person. while my siblings are laughing at the endless of things they can talk about, i always seem to be this boring person who doesnt know how to talk to people. i really need help as a teenager. it is a terrible feeling to feel awkward, be it with friends of family. whenever i had to go somewhere to school or whatever in my dad’s car, the whole journey would be so quiet and awkward. and the cycle repeats and repeats. cos i would feel down cos i dont know how to hold a simple conversation well. everybody thinks im this boring person, and they dont bother about me. somebody please teach me how to talk more. i just want to talk more. and some people can just talk non-stop. and i feel really inferior to these people.
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i know exactly what you mean, i mean im just like that. I dont even know why im so quiet, it just happens. lol its weird tho.. im only quiet around ppl at school . I dont really think your boring, i just think you havent let anyone see your other side.. i mean i’m extremely shy around some ppl, and around other ppl, i’ve let them see the real me. it all depends on the person and how they make you feel comfortable.
its all about opening up, and for me, itjust takes time. Everyone at school always always asks me why im so quiet.. and everytime they ask that, I act like it doesnt bother me, but really i feel so sad.
I think im definitely improving on opening up more though..
you just have to know what to say and when to say it. Like in order to have a good conversation, you just need to be laid back and say whatevers on your mind. laughing and smiling is something you should definitely do. lol like i allways smile and laugh, and thats one of the things that people notice about me as a first impression. It definitely makes them comfortable around you rather than having awkward convos all the time.
anyway good luck lol
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I am exactly like you. i hate it. i am so quiet at school. everyone always tells me to talk but i don’t know what to say. its not that i am shy but i don’t know what to say. im not like one of those people who just shout out random things. some of my closest friends know that i can be loud and talkative but when i am in a group i feel so left out because i dont talk. even if i do talk my voice is so quiet. i hatte it. i hang out with cool people. if i was louder i would probably be alot more popular.
remember:
1) no-one is staring at you or judging you. they are too busy worrying about whether people like them!
2) there are no “rules” – everyone else is making it up as they go along, too
3) practise
4) be genuine and sincere, and never lie (well, only white lies)
5) if people don’t like you or laugh, just say to yourself “f-ck them, they’re the weird/stupid ones”
6) be interesting – develop interests so then you have something to talk about
7) keep trying. you’ll find people you like talking to
good luck :)
just an advice.
I used to be a boring person.
Suddenly I found out how to be a talkative person.
People wants to listen others people failure and shameful things or embarrassing things.
So, start talking about your failures and odds things or dirty secrets you’ve done when you are young.
Or start talking about your friends or family member’s.
They will laugh and you can laugh with them.
Help!
So i have a problem.. i have been talking to this older guy and the first time we met it was totally normal like we were best friends. So he asked me for my number and we hung out a second time.But it was totally different it was like we both didnt know what to say. Or like he would say something and i would answer it but then it would go back to being awk again. I really like this guy but i dont know how to keep things going without it being awk. every time we hang out. What should i do???
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i know! omg! i’m so quiet and i dont know what to do i just started dating this guy and i really like him we have been friends for awhile and i dont know if i just didnt notice how quiet i was around him b4 or if this just started, but every time we hang out i have nothing to say and its really awk. but i really really want to talk to him because i like him so much i just cant think of sh*t to say!!!!!! i asked him if i was boring and duh he said no but i just feel so bad cuz it seems to me that its geting real old real fast and i just dont know what to do!
some one help me pleeeez!!!im soooooooo quite at school xox
i am lisa i am 14 and i have no brothers or sisters . At home i am a really loud chatty person but at school i just kinda loose my talketive way i only really talk loudley to my friends who are really close to me esspecially my best friend claire who slept over at my house last night she sleeps over alot we are like sisters i also talk to rommiley and her little sister saffron shannon charlotte emily kyle conner but i dont talk to any of them as much as i talk to claire and conners my boyfriend but i just go all shy and quite around him like i do with most people so anyways back to school yeah i am like so quite the teacher even has to look around the classroom after she has called my name in the register cos even though i answer i just talk so quiteley and i only pretty much talk to charlotte and shannon in my lessons.I know most people laugh about me and talk about me in lessons and yeah it bothers me and belive me i have tried to talk to people louder who arnt just my friends but nothing seems to work so can i have some advice please xox
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