you can just think of him as if he inspired you not made you sad that hes gone write back

Just about the only wise thing my mum ever said was that it takes 5 years after someone you love dies till you start to feel better. My dad died in 2002, and the first couple of years were really unbearable. He missed my kids being born, my wedding, and loads of stuff I’d really like to have shared with him. But I feel privileged to have had such a wonderful father, and I know that he made me the person I am today. You’ll be ok, and I think you’re lucky, as I was, to have had someone in your life that you loved so much.